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Anonymous: About the gift thing, my boyfriend got me a cheap charm bracelet and adds to it throughout different visits and I LOVE it

Albert, go on ebay and find a pretty necklace. They’re super cheap, but also REALLY nice, and a lot are good quality. You can ask for rush delivery or whatever(: Try to find one that’s a locket or one with her birthstone, or something pearl (that’s the gemstone for june) Hope this helps!! ~Anna

To: Albert. Maybe you can get cheep (I’m talking about a 5 to 10 dollars cheep) matching rings you both can wear? My LDB did this and It’s something very special for both of us. :) P.S. Happy early anniversary!

Albert here are some of the answers from our lovely followers! :D

xoGianna

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Please, help me!

Hello, everyone! I’m Albert, one of the owners of this blog. I just wanted to ask for help! It’s weird, I know (?) But I’ll see my girlfriend in about a week, it’s a 20 hours travel and I really need special details to give her, because I’m not just traveling reasonless, It’ll be our first anniversary on June 23!

I can’t spend too much money because of the bus ticket, it’s expensive and I need ideas for her! I mean, she’s just like my everything, I really want to give her something she can wears all the time or something like that. If you have any ideas, send an ask to the blog, or to meeeee.

http://teenmind101.tumblr.com/

Thank you all!

-Albert

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Anonymous: Can I personally message one of you guys? I just need to talk with someone that understands me. This is just getting harder and harder to handle :(

Of course.

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message Albert: http://teenmind101.tumblr.com/ask

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Anonymous: how should I feel if my girlfriend gets invited to my family events but I am never invited to her family events?

You shoudn’t feel bad, anon. If you don’t like that just talk with your girlfriend, it’s something preatty easy to fix. Good luck!

-Albert

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Anonymous: Hi, sweetie! How're you today? c: So, umm, I do need some help, If you don't mind me asking. Umm, my LDR boyfriend and I started dating about two weeks ago and he hasn't talked to me since. I've been very worried. And, he hasn't been on a lot to begin with ever since he and his girlfriend broke up.. which was in May. :\ Thanks so much! <3

I’m just great today, anon. It’s great to see people so nice these days! And well, you should try to talk with him as fast as possible, ask what’s been going on and well, just vent off all your doubts.

Don’t let this get into you, maybe it’s nothing, but be prepared for anything. I hope things get fixed between you and your boyfriend, remember we’re here for you if you need more advises. Good luck!

-Albert

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Anonymous: My boyfriend is going on a school trip next week and most likely we won't be able to talk. He and I have talked basically every single day since last November, and I can't imagine going that long without talking to him. I don't want to make a big deal of it to him though because I want him to have fun and not worry about me. It sucks though. I have a rough home life and he's the only reason I look forward to waking up in the morning. I need advice on how to deal with his absence.

You just need to do other things to occupy your time. You can just get out of the house and go to the pool or park or just walk around! If you don’t want to go out then listen to music or you can read a book :) There is a lot that you can do but if it’s really that hard at home I would suggest just getting out of the house for some time each day. It will help keep your mind off of him while he is gone and you won’t be bored!

xoGianna

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Anonymous: Anon about kids. Yeah no, I'm 22, he's 18, & we're both still in school. He & I aren't even officially dating right now because we decided we were too busy with school & all to date right now & we needed time to get to know each other better first because when we dated earlier this year, it ended roughly due to the fact that we didn't know each other the way we thought we did. We're great now though, and really close, so I'm confident we'll get back together. I hope changes his mind about kids.

I said you were probably younger anon. Sorry. I mean, 18 is still pretty young and people are still finding themselves then, trying to figure out what they want. He might be indecisive right now so I would just give him some time to think about it and really think about what he wants.

xoGianna

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Anonymous: My & my ldb are on a break. I'm almost positive we'll end up back together eventually though, but in the meantime, we're best friends. When he & I first met, he said he wanted 2 kids & I originally wanted 6. Well, over time he changed his mind & decided he didn't want any, meanwhile I decided I'd settle on 2. He's still set on no kids though. It hurts because I've wanted to be a mother since I was a child. He's stubborn so I guess my best hope is to wait & hope he changes his mind. Any advice?

I think that you need to try and make an agreement with him. Like even one kid. Express to him just how badly you don’t want to be a mother and raise a kid (at the right time). Don’t try and get on it with him yet though because you two are probably still young and have time to figure things out together.

xoGianna

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Anonymous: Hey you guys /.\ i just wanted to congrats daisy with the engagement ^•^ <33 Anyway I visited my ex ldbf over the weekend cause I well honestly we've missed each other. I barely came back last night. And the whole time we were so happy. But now I'm back home, I don't know what to do. We aren't together still.. I'm honestly scared to ask him what's goin to happen between us, but I want to know. Can you just give me word of advice about how I can stop being scared and how to ask him. Please<3

Well, it is hard to keep happy and calm days after you’ve seen your beloved one. You feel kind of lonely, the best advise I can give you is to keep talking with him, do not let the communication die.

And well, it’s pretty easy to ask him! Just be brave enough and be straight like an arrow, be direct and serious, he’ll understand you doubt. I wish the best for you, anon. Good luck!

-Albert

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Hey guys!

It’s Daisy. I don’t know if any of you remembers me but I started this blog. I gave it to Gianna and Albert because my long distance boyfriend broke up with me and I couldn’t handle the pain of being faced with long distance every day.

Today, I am very happy with my new boyfriend. We have been together for 9 months now and I have recovered from my other relationship. After my finals I am coming back to run this blog with Gianna and Albert.

Also, I am engaged! Thought I’d let you know.

♥ Daisy

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Anonymous: to the anon with the mean ex who keeps saying shes not good enough.. forget that guy! ive had people say that too me too and if he wasnt or isnt able to see how good you are then he didnt deserve you in the first place. you are good enough for the guy you're with now otherwise he wouldnt like you right? you are always good enough for anybody and it doesnt matter what other people say as long as you know that that one special person thinks you're good enough for them.

See anon! He isn’t even worth your friendship! Friends are supposed to be nice and supportive!

xoGianna

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Anonymous: part 1 Hello :) My ex and I broke up about an year ago and we stayed friends. Months later I fell in love with another guy, well, we're together, even though he lives far far away. And i'm really happy and everything is ok. But this same ex keeps saying me that i'm boring and annoying and stupid, that it's a torture to go out with me and i look bad, that i'm cruel and heartless, a bad person, that i will scare off the new guy, that i'm not worth the effort at all etc.I got over him long time

part2 ago and i’m tired of this. With him I felt insecure and unhappy most of the time and now i realize i deserve better. Honestly,i don’t know what to do. Almost every time when i meet him, I feel horrible and i regret it. My bf keeps asking what’s wrong with me because i get depressed and also wants to know who had made me have so low self esteem,but i’m afraid to tell the truth. This fiend/ex keeps saying how much he loves me(as a friend), but i don’t believe it. and i don’t know what to do.

You should really cut off communication with your ex. Honestly, he makes you feel horrible about yourself and anyone who does that in your life shouldn’t be in it. I think you should also tell your current boyfriend about him because then he will be able to comfort you when you are done and he will know the reason for why you have such low self-esteem.

xoGianna

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